public function postUpdate(Request $r)
 {
     RefBantuan::where('id_user', $r->id)->where('tahun', $r->tahun_edit)->delete();
     $user = User::find($r->id);
     foreach ($r->id_bantuan as $val) {
         $dt = new RefBantuan();
         $dt->id_user = $r->id;
         $dt->id_bantuan = $val;
         $dt->tahun = $r->tahun_update;
         $dt->nama_program = $r->nama_program;
         $dt->save();
     }
     $r->session()->flash('success', 'Berhasil menyimpan data');
     return redirect()->route('ref_bantuan');
 }